A TikTok video showcasing an Angel Tree Christmas haul has ignited online debate, raising questions about whether the donor truly understood and fulfilled a child’s wishes. Event planner Shay Jackson, known as @shayjay on social media, shared her purchases for 10-year-old Ivanna, whose list included clothes, a Stanley Cup, a $150 Sprayground backpack, and pho. Jackson’s haul, featuring a $20 backpack from Amazon, clothes from Target, and instant pho soup, garnered over 9.4 million views and sparked 7,000 comments, many questioning her choices.
Jackson defended her decisions in an exclusive interview with PEOPLE, explaining that she prioritized Ivanna’s needs over her “wants” due to time constraints and vague information on the wish list. She emphasized purchasing leak-proof Stanley cup and explained her reluctance to buy a phone for a 10-year-old without parental consent. Despite facing criticism, Jackson stands by her purchases, emphasizing her effort to provide for a child who might otherwise receive nothing.
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Jackson, a former non-profit employee, described gift-giving as her love language and initially intended the video to inspire others to give back. She detailed her shopping process, explaining how her boyfriend and roommate helped select clothing and accessories from Target, totaling around $150. With a rapidly approaching deadline, she ordered the Stanley cup, backpack, and pho from Amazon for approximately $45, bringing her total spending to roughly $200. Jackson emphasized focusing on providing a variety of clothing options to ensure Ivanna could create multiple outfits.
The unexpected viral nature of the video and the ensuing negative comments led Jackson to post an apology video, which also garnered millions of views. She admitted feeling overwhelmed by the initial negativity but ultimately viewed it as an opportunity to encourage greater generosity during the holiday season. Jackson challenged critics to translate their negative comments into positive action by donating to local non-profits.
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Reflecting on the experience, Jackson expressed confidence in her efforts given the circumstances but acknowledged she would have purchased two Stanley cups – one for everyday use and the other for school – if given a second chance. She urged others to focus on the positive impact of giving to children in need, avoid overthinking gift choices, and ignore online negativity. Jackson concluded by emphasizing her continued commitment to giving back and highlighting the potential for collective good if critics channeled their negative energy into charitable donations. She reminded readers that even small contributions of time, effort, or money can make a significant difference in a child’s life.
